Boost your emotional resilience with these affirmations from Happily Family that remind you that there’s no such thing as perfect parenting.

  1. My child is not giving me a hard time, they are having a hard time.
  2. Being in a family is how we learn to get along.
  3. Parenting is the most important thing I will do all day.
  4. I am safe.
  5. My kids know that I love them.
  6. My child doesn’t need a perfect parent. Kids just need “good enough” parents.
  7. I cannot control anyone else, I can only control myself.
  8. This is what it looks like before it all works out.
  9. I am not responsible for my child’s actions; I am responsible for how I respond.
  10. We will get through this together.
  11. I’m trying the best I can.
  12. I’m only human.
  13. I’m still learning.
  14. This is what it looks like for today.
  15. I am not alone.
  16. A lot of other parents also struggle with this.

After you choose one, write it on a sticky note, put it on your mirror, and say it to yourself every time you see it. If you slip into self-blame anytime during the week, say it to yourself again. (Next week you can choose a different affirmation and continue practicing these steps.)


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