Finding Common Ground

Finding Common Ground

Get on the same team using these techniques by The Gottman Institute that foster mutual understanding and compromise.  Step 1 Take some time to answer these questions posed here about each of the five “core concerns.” What kinds of situations made you feel...
DEAR MAN Skill Worksheet

DEAR MAN Skill Worksheet

Practice healthy assertiveness with this communication framework that helps you express your wants and needs effectively.  Download a PDF of the worksheet on the original post. For more helpful resources like this, check out The Kids Mental Health Foundation website....
Getting Parents on the Same Page

Getting Parents on the Same Page

Follow this simple 3-step process by The Gottman Institute to reach a compromise and start parenting from the same team.  Step 1: Create Physical and Emotional Safety The research has made clear what we already know: we cannot reach a compromise until we feel safe...
GROW Through Conflict

GROW Through Conflict

Conflict is natural — in fact, it’s an important aspect of healthy relationships. How we respond to it can determine if it stalls or strengthens the relationship. Let’s explore this model for effective problem-solving to GROW through any obstacles that come our...
Consider Your Intentions

Consider Your Intentions

Use this worksheet by Dr. Jeremy Sutton for Positive Psychology to tune into your intentions and prevent potential conflict with those around you.  References Hart, S. (2006). Respectful parents, respectful kids: 7 keys to turn family conflict into co-operation....
The Mental Load Self-Test

The Mental Load Self-Test

Complete this mental load self-test by Johanna Lücke, to see how you and your partner can divvy up tasks in a way where both of you feel supported.  To complete the activity: Both you and your partner should fill out the table separately. If certain tasks do not take...