THINGS YOU CAN DO TO BRING MORE
Compassion
TO YOUR PARENTING
Feeling guilty, discouraged, or like you’re not doing enough?
It’s common to feel like you’re always falling short as a parent — whether you’re stretched thin juggling responsibilities or comparing yourself to the seemingly “perfect” parents you see on social media.
You might find yourself being overly self-critical, convinced you’re not doing enough or not measuring up.
Practice Compassion — not just towards others, but also yourself.
With self-compassion, you can acknowledge your struggles without judgment, giving yourself room to learn and grow.
It allows you to embrace imperfections, forgive yourself, and approach parenting with more patience and understanding.
When you’re kind to yourself, you not only model resilience, but also set a positive example for your kids to treat themselves with kindness and care.
Inner Skills for Compassion
Things you can do in 5 minutes or less
Discover these quick tools to help you cultivate greater compassion in just moments.
The Compassionate Friend Visualization
Cultivate self-compassion by imagining how a close friend would respond to your struggles.
50+ Body Neutrality Affirmations
Shift your focus from how your body looks to what it can do with these affirmations, promoting a more neutral and accepting perspective.
Half-Smiling: A Mindfulness Meditation
Signal to your brain that you’re open to feelings of peace and acceptance with this meditation that is centered around the power of the half-smile.
Self-Compassion Questionnaire
Evaluate your current level of self-compassion and discover areas where you can show yourself more kindness and understanding.
The Three Chair Exercise
Use this exercise to explore different perspectives, leading to a more balanced, kinder view of yourself.
Feel S.A.F.E Again: The Power of Vulnerability
Harness the power of self-compassion with the S.A.F.E. framework that creates emotional safety to foster a deeper connection with yourself and others.
Random Acts of Kindness
Discover simple ways to spread joy and improve your own well-being by brightening someone else’s day.
4-5-6 Self-Compassion Pause with Soothing Touch
Reset when emotions run high with this simple breathing technique (that incorporates physical comfort), which you can practice anywhere.
Self-Compassion Parenting Affirmations
Boost your emotional resilience with these affirmations that remind you that there’s no such thing as perfect parenting.
5-Minute Self-Compassion Break
Offer yourself the kindness and understanding you need to get through challenging situations with this quick guided self-compassion meditation.
Have More Than 5 Minutes?
Try these longer activities to level up your compassion in parenthood and life in general.
Identifying Generational Trauma as an Immigrant
Understand how family patterns and past experiences affect you, and discover ways to heal and create a healthier path for yourself and your family.
Forgiving Yourself for Past Mistakes
Reflect, release, and move forward with this guided exercise designed to help parents let go of guilt, practice self-compassion, and embrace personal growth.
Drop the “Shoulds”
Learn to recognize and release the pressures of the “shoulds” in your life to parent from a more present and compassionate place.
13 Ways to Heal From Being an Unloved Child
Heal your lack of love during childhood to build a more compassionate relationship with yourself and your children.
7 Ways to Practice Body Neutrality
Uncover practical tips to shift from judgment to appreciation to respect your body even on days when you don’t love how you look.
Building Body Acceptance
Develop a healthier relationship with your body through self-compassion and mindfulness, modeling positive body image and acceptance for your children.
Want a Quick Read?
Dive into these insightful articles for fresh perspectives on compassion and parenting.
Empathy: How to Feel and Respond to the Emotions of Others
Learn how to develop and express empathy in your parenting and relationships.
The Art of Nurturing Empathy Without Losing Yourself
Get insight on how to navigate emotional connections casting aside your own needs and emotions.
Nurturing Body Confidence Starts with Parental Self-Compassion
Learn how modeling self-compassion and body acceptance as a parent sets the foundation for helping your children build healthy self-esteem and confidence.
Compassion for the Parenting Journey
Get insight into how compassion can soften the hard moments of parenting and be beneficial to your kids.
From Grace to Growth: How Parental Self-Compassion Nurtures Children’s Emotional Balance
Dive into the research behind how showing yourself grace and kindness as a parent can create an emotionally balanced home, setting your children up for long-term emotional resilience.
Positive Parenting: See Things Through Their Eyes
Help your kids feel seen and heard by gaining a better understanding of life through their perspective.
Have Time for a Longer Read?
Explore these highly recommended books (and audiobooks), curated to help you nurture compassion for yourself and your parenting.
The Science Behind Compassion
If you want to nerd out on the science, dig into these research papers and studies.